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Dave, 24, was totally psyched when a woman he was seeing asked to get a little wild."An ex-girlfriend lay down on the bed and begged me to rip off her clothes, which I did.Boss him around a little, and tell him how you want him to touch you, what to say, and direct his every move.Watch him squirm and remind him from time to time that you’re in control.
Before I could even try to take off her clothes, she threw me back on the bed and blindfolded me with her bra," he remembers. I didn't lift a finger."For a softer approach, Brame suggests positions like reverse cowgirl, which prevent him from controlling the rhythm. Tell him if he disobeys you or doesn’t follow your directions, he’ll be punished.
“For many guys, the more stress they have, the more they may want to do sexual acts that are out of the ordinary,” she says.
(True for you too, btw.) Try it out IRL: First off, have a conversation about boundaries and safe sex.
Save the ambiguity for pre-hookup sexting, and don’t be afraid to ask for what you really want.
If you’re worried about offending him (trust, you're not), just focus on the positives to tell him what you are and aren’t into.
Here, 11 of the most common sex *~cravings~* every guy has, and a non-awk way of bringing them up: Imagine sex is like a group project and you are obviously very invested in getting an A (or having an orgasm.) Your group members might be all talk but when it’s 3 AM the night before something’s due and you’re not ANY closer to that A, you might need to take control if you really wanna see it through. Show him the moves you use to get yourself off when you’re alone and let him in on the fantasy.